Situationship Reality Check Calculator
Answer seven questions about how they actually behave. The calculator weighs effort, consistency and clarity to estimate their level of interest.
How the calculator works
- Who starts conversations and how fast they reply count for 45% of the score.
- Plans they suggest, future talk and meeting friends count for 42%.
- Talking about what you are adds the rest; long ambiguity lowers the score.
Frequently asked questions
What is a situationship?
A romantic or sexual relationship that has not been defined. There is connection, but no agreed label or commitment.
How long is too long for a situationship?
There is no fixed rule. The calculator starts lowering the score after about three months without a clear conversation.
Can someone be interested but slow to reply?
Yes. Reply speed is only one input. Plans and follow-through tell you more.
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